Good jobs and nice families is the dream of most girls. Some women are living their dreams. Such ladies roam this earth. Having a stable family meaning having to bring up babies as well as maintaining relevance in their career. Balancing these two full-time jobs has proven to be a very hard task for all women. This makes it quite hard for most ladies to keep up with the career development of the men.
Managing the two is something that can be done. Changing or altering a career path might help a lady to have a family. Ladies should know what they will be doing and at what time of their careers. By this, a lady might program herself to have baby/babies at a particular point in their lives. At this point her career will be safe. A lady can decide on what to do next with her career after giving birth. A mother can decide to settle at a given level of a career where she is in content.
Delaying motherhood is yet another way to work out the chances of being a career woman and at the same time a mother at some point. A woman then can have a child after meeting her target. When this happens a woman will be fully ready and prepared to have children. This time is appropriate for having a child. The major problem with this, however, is the presence of menopause in a woman’s life.Conception at this point is impossible. A lady can therefore, keep her eggs frozen so that they may still be viable at a later date.
Another possible way of coping with the stress that comes with child birth and career is to open up one’s own business. A fully established business premises with good cash flow is a good starter to have a child or children. When the owner is not there, someone else can be hired to take her place for a while. Soon after giving birth, the mother, who is the owner can come back and take full control of their business. Running a self-owned business means that they are their bosses.
Seeking help is another possible way to maintain a balance between motherhood and career hood. Either friends or relatives can provide the much-needed help. Childcare facilities are always there in case their services are urgently needed. Assistance in other household activities may be significantly helpful to mother. Mothers always suffer from the guilt brought by some decisions they make during this period. Mothers usually will feel like she is not there for her child and at the same time feels like she has to go out there and look for money. A mother should be confident in whatever she does.